How Vahl was introduced to the Enneagram
I recently read a post where a friend of mine explained how he took an Enneagram test and would figure out the results later. That post inspired me to share how I was introduced to the E-gram, in the hopes of simplifying and demystifying it.
Damian started telling me about the Enneagram about nine years ago. The more he described it, the more I wanted to learn more. One day, we finally sat down together and he showed me the book Personality Types, by Riso and Hudson.
First, we turned to Part I, which listed the 9 basic types, and four word description for each. He told me to read through the list and see which description or descriptions I related to the most. Here’s the list:
The One, also called The Reformer, is principled, orderly, perfectionistic, and
self-righteous.
The Two, also called The Helper, is caring, generous,
possessive, and manipulative.
The Three, also called The Achiever, is
adaptable, ambitious, image-conscious, and hostile.
The Four, also called The
Individualist, is intuitive, expressive, self-absorbed, and depressive.
The
Five, also called The Investigator, is perceptive, original, detached, and
eccentric.
The Six, also called The Loyalist, is engaging, committed,
defensive, and paranoid.
The Seven, also called The Enthusiast, is
motivating, accomplished, uninhibited, and manic.
The Eight, also called The
Challenger, is self-confident, decisive, dominating, and combative.
The
Nine, also called The Peacemaker, is gentle, reassuring, complacent, and
neglectful.
Once I had chosen a couple of types, we turned to the Appendix and looked up more detailed descriptions of those types. Basically, there are more one-word descriptions broken down into three levels: healthy, average, and unhealthy.
Damian told me once I found my type, it would feel like a K.O. punch. He was right — there was no doubt about it. I felt like I was reading a kind of biography for my personality, or my own internal programming code. It felt like someone knew me and described me to a tee. My strengths, weaknesses, fears, and desires that I had experienced throughout my life were there.
Slap me with a number six. I went on to read the full description in Part II, and gained even more perspective. As I read more about the other types, I began to see the ones and zeroes of the Matrix, so to speak.
If you’re interested in figuring out your Enneagram type, I highly recommend the book Personality Types and trying out Damian’s method. It’s simpler, more intuitive than an exam, and does not require voluminous reading. You’ll get more out of it than confusing test results!
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Thanks for putting the method down, Tony.
I never encountered an accurate E-gram test anywhere.
The block some people have when introduced to E-gram is that they say, “Oh, I have all these traits in all 9 types” or “Nah- none of them fit.”
Let’s hope at least one person can get inspired and into it as much as we are.
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I remember a short time after we did this, you and I were driving around Fort Lauderdale at night in your car, and began to type all of our co-workers and authority figures in our lives.
That feeling was equal to the initial feeling of seeing our own types. It explained everyone’s motivations and interactions.
Oooh, linked! I see my Google cred rising already!
I think it’s time for a trip to the Library… I might look for that book.
“Peace Maker”, defines my general outlook on life pretty well. I’m not so sure about the “wings” thing, but well, meh.
You ain’t no 9, Gary, no matter what your philosophy may be. Take it from me.
Oh! I am supposedly [ ESTP ] for what it’s worth. (However only 12% biased at the most for any category).
[ MYERS-BRIGGS ]
Damian, I agree. It was terrific to finally begin to understand the TRUTH. That was 25 years of searching finally coming to fruition!
And it keeps getting better.
What I love most about the Riso-Hudson Enneagram is that they understand that you can integrate healthy traits from the other types … you’re not a single type unless you choose to be.
Your right Vahl…it does keep getting better…it gets better all of the damn time
Your result for The Quick & Painless ENNEAGRAM Test…8 – the Asserter
you chose AY – your Enneagram type is EIGHT (aka “The Challenger”).
“I must be strong”
Asserters are direct, self-reliant, self-confident, and protective.
How to Get Along with Me
Stand up for yourself… and me.
Be confident, strong, and direct.
Don't gossip about me or betray my trust.
Be vulnerable and share your feelings. See and acknowledge my tender,
vulnerable side.
Give me space to be alone.
Acknowledge the contributions I make, but don't flatter me.
I often speak in an assertive way. Don't automatically assume it's
a personal attack.
When I scream, curse, and stomp around, try to remember that's just
the way I am.
What I Like About Being a EIGHT
being independent and self-reliant
being able to take charge and meet challenges head on
being courageous, straightforward, and honest
getting all the enjoyment I can out of life
supporting, empowering, and protecting those close to me
upholding just causes
What's Hard About Being a EIGHT
overwhelming people with my bluntness; scaring them away when I don't intend to
being restless and impatient with others' incompetence
sticking my neck out for people and receiving no appreciation for it
never forgetting injuries or injustices
putting too much pressure on myself
getting high blood pressure when people don't obey the rules or when
things don't go right
EIGHTs as Children Often
are independent; have an inner strength and a fighting spirit
are sometimes loners
seize control so they won't be controlled
fugure out others' weaknesses
attack verbally or physically when provoked
take charge in the family because they perceive themselves as the strongest, or grow up in difficult or abusive surroundings
EIGHTs as Parents
are often loyal, caring, involved, and devoted
are sometimes overprotective
can be demanding, controlling, and rigid
Renee Baron & Elizabeth Wagele
The Enneagram Made Easy
Discover the 9 Types of People
Harper
SanFrancisco, 1994, 161 pages
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